Yes, I Can Drive

By Lauryn Bhavnani

3 min read

People automatically assume a lot of things when I first tell them I have idiopathic hypersomnia (IH).

It causes them to jump to thinking about all the things that I can't do with my condition.

Idiopathic hypersomnia and driving

One of the usual questions that I get is, "Can you drive a car?" because people assume that due to my idiopathic hypersomnia, I'm not allowed to drive a car. Personally, since being diagnosed, my doctor has given me the all-clear to drive as long as my IH doesn't affect my driving. Thankfully, I am among the group of people with IH that can drive and owns a car. (My most prized possession is my car! We have the same birthday, surprisingly.)

While my condition has not affected my driving, I do take precautions for longer drives or night drives. I let people know where I'm going, I share my location with people who want to follow me on my trip, and I try to avoid long drives at night unless I'm the second shift driver. With my personal driving rules, I've been able to do a bunch of long distance drives! My farthest drive was from Dallas, Texas to Columbia, Missouri on my own. I've also driven to Wisconsin, around Illinois, Indiana, and around Dallas!

Keeping extra comfort and convenience items in my car

People also ask if there is anything extra I do to make sure I drive safely. Over time, I have slowly created a collection of items kept in my car. These are items that I have felt made it easier for my day-to-day and for if I'm doing a longer adventure.

A blanket/plushies
These items are grouped together since I usually end up using both at the same time. The plushies are a comfort item for when I have anxiety and need a minute to calm down. A lot of passengers love them as well, since anyone who rides in the backseat is allowed to use them.

The plushies also double as pillows! The blanket is for if I have a situation where my car breaks down and it's freezing outside (which, sadly, has happened to me before!). Or, if I need to pull over to take a quick nap, I use the pillows and blanket to create a makeshift bed in my backseat.

Spare clothes
As someone who also likes to party and be out late as a young adult, I have moments where I need to crash at someone's house. Having spare clothes is great for those spontaneous sleepovers so I have fresh clothes to change into. They are also useful since I am one to not check the weather app, causing me to dress too hot or too cold for the day. Having extra clothes to change into if the weather shifts is always nice.

An umbrella
Since I don't remember to check the weather, a spare umbrella in my car has come in handy more than once.

Spare medications
Sometimes I forget to take my medications, so I'll have some leftover ones when I go to refill them. These leftovers I keep in my car for days when I forget my dose but don't have my main pill bottle on me. I keep headache medication in the car as well, in case I need it at some point in the day.

Something to read
I get bored waiting in the car for people, so I keep a book in my car for spontaneous reading if I need something to do.

Overall, idiopathic hypersomnia has created obstacles, but it hasn't stopped me from driving!

What are some safety or comfort items you keep in your car to help you drive more safely with IH or narcolepsy? Share with us in the comments or in our forums.

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leiterportillo88 Member
Driving is the one thing that I miss. I have a license and can drive but don't. I have wrecked every single car that I have had. I totaled 3 VW Jettas, 2-3 mini vans, a Toyata RAV 4 and 2-3 CRV's. These were the worst ones. I should have stopped long ago. My doctors had said that as long as I took my meds and was not having cataplexy I was ok. But my last accident was enough to make me re evaluate. This one wasn't even my fault. Someone else fell asleep and ran a stop sign. The CRV I was driving flipped twice and landed upright. I guess I finally scared myself straight. The funny thing though is it was because of one of the VW Jettas that I totaled, my dad took time to go to a couple of doctors and my parents took me to a specialist in Chicago and I was diagnosed 30 years ago. And up till about 5 years ago, I still drove. God has protected me and has a reason that I have not been seriously hurt or have not seriously hurt someone. He protected my 5 children that I drove around for all those years too. 
1. Lori.Foster Community Admin
 <inline-mention username="leiterportillo88" user-id="7000446"/> Thank goodness no one was hurt, or at least not seriously. I can see why it was hard to give up driving when your doctors kept telling you it was okay and when you had young kids who need transportation. Are you able to get wherever you need to be with the help of others now? Sending lots of gentle hugs your way. - Lori (Team Member)
P-Shaz Member
I can't drive over 2.5 hours. at 2 I start to get logey, then at 2.5hrs I just need to get out. My main wakeness prop is something fidgety. drawing, clay, a toy, something to keep my mind and hands busy. Driving doesn't do it. I avoid trips as a result, or my wife shoulders much of it. She gets carsick as a passenger anyway, so it works out! 
1. Lori.Foster Community Admin
 <inline-mention username="P-Shaz" user-id="4157628"/> I'm glad you know your limits and that your wife doesn't mind doing the bulk of the driving. A perfect partnership! Wishing you the best. - Lori (Team Member)
melaniep Member
I have type 2 narcolepsy and can only stay awake on the highway for 30 minutes at most. My medicine works for city driving though. No more falling asleep at stoplights. I'm thankful for that. 
1. Lori.Foster Community Admin
 I am glad you can at least get around the city safely, <inline-mention username="melaniep" user-id="4122165"/>. I see you are new to the community. Welcome! Are you newly diagnosed as well or are you a narcolepsy veteran? - Lori (Team Member)
Sketters Member
I totaled 17 vehicles in 17 years before I was diagnosed. Now, I rarely drive more than an hour or two at a time, and while I can't sleep in my car because I'd never be able to straighten up again (old, arthritic, and too tall for all but vans and SUVs), I do adopt a lot of the same strategies you do. I also share my location with family members through my phone so they'll know which ditch to find me in if I don't come home. If I drive more than 2 1/2 hours at a time I have to be careful. The longest trip I've done solo was 12 hours door to door (7 of actual driving, the rest was a mid-winter roadside emergency nightmare for which my feline travel companions have still not forgiven me), and it was irresponsible of me to go that long. 6 hours seems to be my limit, and I can only do it once in a while. When I was diagnosed, I was shocked to realize how often I had been driving while my brain was in REM sleep. The closest I can get to describing it is that someone is having a really intense discussion in the back of my mind, and I'm listening as hard as I can but don't understand all the words. I once hit a giant tree and lost the entire front end of my Volvo because someone in the back of my mind was yammering on about the spider that I had just discovered on my lap. I wasn't startled by it, but apparently conversing with myself about where it had come from was more important than paying attention to my speed or the road. Now that I know what that daydreamy feeling is, I won't get behind the wheel if I have not had enough sleep, or if I'm having a REM day. I'm allowed to keep my license as long as I am taking meds, have regular sleep studies, and can prove that any accidents I have are not sleep-related (for instance, the ones where someone ran a red light and plowed into my vehicle). 
1. P-Shaz Member
 <inline-mention username="Sketters" user-id="8771397"/> LOL "which ditch to find me in"! My 81yr old father-in-law crashed and had his iPhone with him. The newer iPhones have crash report. Your phone asks if you are okay and if you don't answer, it calls 911 and sends the location and also sends a report to your emergency contact! My wife got a text within minutes and was calling police before they got there. He was in the hospital before most people even get found. great tech!
2. Lori.Foster Community Admin
 <inline-mention username="P-Shaz" user-id="4157628"/> Thank goodness for new technology! I am glad your father-in-law is okay. Thanks for sharing this information. It's good to know. - Lori (Team Member)