To Do Lists, Remembering, Note Taking OH My!! Any suggestions on methods, apps, or planners?!

I struggle so hard with this and need a paper and electronic method. I take wayyyy too many screenshots, bookmark too much, take notes various ways on my phone, and beyond but fail to do right by getting back to it all...in any ONE PLACE. It's seemingly unmanageable.

I fail hard at writing it down from my phone but that's how I usually come across things. That "TO DO LIST" as well....so overwhelming and I don't know how to make it right...or do it well 😳. A visual method would likely be best!??