It is difficult to find other narcoleptics out here in the wild. Luckily I'm pretty open about my diagnoses, thats the first step to finding each other. I find, narcoleptics certainly do attract each other when we're open about it.
I've dated another Narcoleptic/Cataplectic, as well as a woman with Chronic Fatigue. The first I met because I put a picture of me during my multiple sleep latency test (wires all over me) on my online dating profile. She had done the same😂😂😂.
The second, I was telling a wild Narcolepsy story to some friends at a bar. The woman with Chronic Fatigue overheard the story, explained Chronic Fatigue to me, and I "forgot" to leave the bar with my friends. Still going out with her...
Moral of the story: For better or worse, this diagnoses is a part of us. If we own it, it can't own us.