This evening a friend asked me to go shopping with them tomorrow. Of course I wanted to hang out with them and go shopping, so I said 'yes'! Then after thinking about it, I realized that I would have to restructure my evening and the next two days in order to go. Because of the amount of rest I need before and after trips like this. I then had to text her back and say 'no', not because I was too busy, but because I would be too busy recovering to get anything done the next two days. And I have stuff I need to get done! I really wanted to hang out with them though. It's so frustrating. Can anyone relate?